Friday, August 6, 2021

Two Fictional Marriages

 

Marriage relationships are often the basis of Pearl S. Buck novels. These two books that I found recently at our local antique mall, 1941's Portrait of A Marriage (preceding by 35 years Nigel Nicholson's famous biography of the same name about his parents) and Buck's 1938 novel This Proud Heart, made me wonder about Buck's own marriage. To Wikipedia I went and found that her second marriage, her most successful marriage, was to her publisher with whom she shared many interests.

Both of these novels are about artists, the husband in one and the wife in the second. The spouses in both books were polar opposites from their artist spouses, examples of the old adage that opposites attract. Putting it simply, these two books could be thought of as cautionary tales about the importance of having something in common before committing to marriage, not that two young people are likely to consider that. But back to the books.

My copy of Portrait of A Marriage is beautiful. The dust jacket picture is of the type of Pennsylvania stone farmhouse that I so admire.

The house was made of fieldstone, brown and dull red and streaked with weathered gold...Over the porch a trumpet vine climbed in full leaf but not yet flowering.

 The artist in William drew him to anything beautiful and the house set in the valley was beautiful. 

The endpapers of the book reveal the second beautiful thing that the artist fell under the spell of, the farmer's beautiful daughter Ruth. (Endpapers of a book can sell a book to me, also deckled edges some old books have. A ribbon doesn't hurt either.)


William, educated and from a wealthy family, immediately wants to paint Ruth making bread in the kitchen that he finds much more charming than his own parents' that only the cook is ever in.

...a big stone-floored room, and in the middle of the outer end wall was a wide fireplace in which a cook stove had been put. Above were good oak beams, smoked to a dark brown...But the kitchen, he thought, as he entered it again, was beautiful.

Alas, despite the beauty of this book, I did not care for it. I did not even care for the beautiful Ruth. Actually, I didn't even care much for William. The marriage did last and I did too, finishing the book, something I normally no longer do if I'm not enjoying it. 

But it is a Pearl S. Buck novel and I am an eternal fan, besides hoping that Ruth would grow and become more than the stubborn closed mind woman she is. To the last page that never happens. 


 Then I turned to the second Buck novel, This Proud Heart published in 1938. It has no dust jacket, no pretty endpapers, no pretty pictures. But oh my goodness, how I loved this book!


 Susan marries Mark with one desire only, to make a perfect home for him. 

She stopped one day when the morning was half over and looked around her living room. Everything was finished in this house. There was nothing more to do. The house looked back at her brightly, the windows clear, the floor shining, everything in its place. There was no room for anything more she could make. The last cushion, the last curtain was done, and one more would be too much. Her small linen closet was full of linen she had embroidered and hemstitched. Outside, the garden was tended and blooming with midsummer. Mark was to make the garden, but she had run out on sunny days and weeded and planted. Yesterday she had even mowed the lawn. But he was angry at her for that.

I say that everyday, don't you? All my work done by  mid-morning and my house and garden perfect. Right.

While I enjoyed reading the book up to this point, loved all the domestic details, it was the rest of the book that was fascinating. What did this wife do when her homemaking duties failed to fulfill the artistic yearnings she had previously satisfied through amateur sculpting? She began to carve in marble and then to become one of the few sculptors who carves directly into stone with no drawing, no pattern, no small model made first.

With each marble block Susan lets the particular piece  reveal itself to her chisel.

I loved the thorough job that the author did fleshing out this artist's career as a sculptor, the detail she went into about the actual sculpting. 

I liked the wife in this book. I liked her dull husband even though they weren't suited at all. There wasn't a grand passion between them whereas the relationship between the painter and his country wife had a marriage that succeeded only because of the passion between them. 

I'm not knocking passion in a marriage, far from it. Marriage is complicated enough with it,in real life and in fiction. Pearl S. Buck does it so well in her novels about her time period. She was, after all, both a Pulitzer Prize and Nobel Prize winner during her career.

Would her books sell today? Probably only to old fogies like me. 

I shouldn't fail to mention that the author's own life, from beginning to end, was complicated as well as sometimes tragic.




 

12 comments:

  1. My grandmother came from a wealthy family that lost everything during the Mexican Revolution. I remember that the two houses that she lived in afterwards were always so neat, organized and clean. My grandfather took great pride in being able to afford a laundry woman who did the washing for her. The laundress would fill three aluminum tubs full of water. She would have a fire going under one of the tubs - that was for the white clothes and she would toss in blue tablets to make the whites whiter. There was a clothesline nearby and the laundress had instructions from my grandfather not to hang my grandmother's unmentionables where everyone could see them. During the revolution she and her mother and sisters were scattered. She was fortunate in that a wealthy family took her in and made sure that she received an education. I have wondered if she learned all of her housekeeping skills from their servants or from the nuns in the convent where she was educated.

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    1. What a fascinating story, Briana! I enjoyed reading it and can easily see that your grandmother was an inspiration to you. It would be wonderful if you knew even more of her story. It would make a wonderful novel!

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    2. She was not forthcoming about certain areas of her life. I know that all of her brothers died in infancy and only her sisters survived to adulthood. At some point her mother asked her father for permission to purchase a small house so that when he passed away she would have her own home. He said "no" because he knew that when he died that his brothers would swoop in and take everything including the little house that she wanted. Sure enough, when my great-grandfather passed away his brothers took everything. My mother said that in those days women needed to have a father, husband, uncle or brother to protect them and their interests. Women who did not have a male relative to look after them were in a very vulnerable position. My grandmother and some of her sisters were fortunate to either have husbands or be under the protection of a wealthy family. The sisters who were not married found protection of a sort in living with married men who provided for them financially. However, this kind of arrangement came at great cost to them and their reputations in those days.

      My grandmother was the youngest in her family. I only remember her and her sister, my great-aunt Elena. Aunt Elena lived in a convent at one time because she was going to be a nun. However, she hated taking orders and ended up leaving the convent and getting married. Her husband died young and for the rest of her life Aunt Elena wore only black. She lived with my grandmother in her old age. My grandma said that when Aunt Elena died that it took her a long time to clean out her bedroom because she was a hoarder. She did not throw out anything no matter how useless it was.

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    3. Oh my, we have no idea how fortunate we are today!

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  2. Very interesting comparison of her two books! You make me want to read The Proud Heart now. Thanks for this entertaining post, Dewena! Blessings on your day!

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  3. I love the illustration of Ruth in the kitchen - this pic, alone, would have had me in the check out line, pronto, eager to get home to start page turning! Too bad she doesn't become more open minded.

    As a young woman, I believed that opposites might have a chance, if they were passionate about each other. What I know now, is that partners in life must share some things they are passionate ABOUT that will allow them to spend time with each other, after time devoted to work, housekeeping, child/parent care, etc.

    I enjoyed reading your reviews on these two novels by Pearl S. Buck but your last sentence, of course, made me very curious about the author's life, so I, too, ended up on her Wikipedia page. She was a beautiful woman, wasn't she? I wonder how much her personality was affected by her time spent in China. Yes, she had a complicated life, indeed.

    Happy Friday!
    Poppy xoxo





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    1. I agree with you, Poppy. I know there are exceptions, examples where there is little in common but a respect and love that still thrives in spite of it. These two marriage examples made me think about marriages among people in other vocations. If you're in the music industry, do the best marriages happen when both are in it? If one is a "star" does it help if the other one is too? Otherwise doesn't it take a very mature, understanding partner to make it a success? I guess this is why so many novels are about marriage relationships, right?

      I'm so glad you were curious about Pearl Buck! From the beginning to end her story is fascinating and sometimes sad. I'm sure her time in China affected her personality. She was raised by parents who taught her to respect the people of a culture different from her own and that was probably a different perspective than some missionaries to China had.

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  4. I read several Buck novels a few years ago, including Portrait of a Marriage, which I remember liking well enough to finish it -- but that's all I remember! I like your book reviews in any case. <3

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    1. Thank you, Gretchen! I'm afraid there are very few reviews of newly released books in either of my blogs and that should tell you how I feel about most new books.

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  5. I enjoyed your review and thoughts on both books, Dewena. The second book reminds me of my husband and I, and the way I/we were when we first married. Later, as I wanted to venture out into my own dreams and abilities, it was difficult for my husband and children to let go of all of my fussiness and taking care of everything under the roof. It takes determination.

    I think I'll look for this book and definitely look up Buck on Wikipedia, I'm always interested in authors. Thanks so much for the recommendation!

    Jane❤️

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    1. Thank you, Jane. While the second book was written so long ago, it certainly foretold how many women would feel in modern times. Even those who love having a beautifully run home can feel torn between that and wanting something more in their life. It's one thing for a husband and children to want the wife and mother to do things she's passionate about but maybe they also want it to be done after everything else is done? And as we all know, running a house can take up all our time if we let it.

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