No, this is not going to be a tutorial on how to properly put sheets on a bed. Martha Stewart, I'm not.
Did you ever hear someone say, "He's made his bed, now he'll have to lie in it"? Have you ever wished someone had said that to you when you were young--and that you had listened to them?
The new year has just begun. It is the time of new beginnings. It may look like this outside:
But in a few months it will look like this:
One of the wisest things I've ever read in a novel was in a 1951 book called Shoulder the Sky by D.E. Stevenson, Robert E.'s cousin. A shepherd in the hills of Scotland happens across the cook's son, hiding in the opening of a cave, reading a book, a truant from school.
"Now listen," said Daniel gravely. "Just you listen to me and I'll tell you something worth remembering. When we're young we make our beds and when we're older we have to lie on them. I'd make myself a comfortable bed if I were you--straight and tidy with the blankets well tucked in at the foot--then it'll not come adrift when you lie in it. If a bed's not properly made at the start the blankets'll maybe fall off in the night and you'll wake up shivering."
A child could learn in a few short months to make his bed properly. It might take a grownup a little longer but I'm going to give it a try because I don't want to wake up shivering next winter.
If you have been shivering a little lately from the cold, the flu, from bad news all around us, you might like to visit the blog I visited earlier through Cozy Little House's Welcome Wagon Friday. It's name is My Cottage On the Lake and the blogger had some lovely ideas for finding beauty all around us. Beauty is always good when you're trying to make your bed properly.
http://mycottageonthelake.blogspot.com
Showing posts with label D.E. Stevenson. Show all posts
Showing posts with label D.E. Stevenson. Show all posts
Saturday, January 5, 2013
Monday, November 5, 2012
Tedious and Unprofitable Discussion
I will be so glad when this election is over. Do your family members and friends tiptoe around each other's political convictions at this time of year or risk hurt feelings? We sometimes do. And what purpose does the arguing serve?
Doesn't it usually descend into what Jan Struther's Mrs. Minerva called "tedious and unprofitable discussion. Tedious because neither side possesses any currency but cliches, and unprofitable because it was clear from the outset that neither side was going to budge an inch."
Mrs. Minerva would not be drawn in. Civilized conversation about a wide variety of subjects she would have enjoyed, even political ones, but how do you keep it civilized with respect on each side? You tell me and we'll both know.
He discovered--or confirmed--that she had humor and originality;
she saw reason in views which she did not share--a rare virtue this!
D.E. Stevenson's 1938 Smouldering Fire
Robert Louis Stevenson's cousin, D.E. Stevenson's books have long been my comfort books when worries crowd into my mind when I put my head on the pillow at night. I have about 28 of them, mostly in paperback. The title of the above book, Smouldering Fire, sounds as if it would be a "romance" book but it isn't, except in a very gentle fashion. Note the "u" in humour and smouldering that the Brits use but we Americans do not. I wonder why? I like that extra "u" and I like to sit down and have a reasonable discussion with people who have different views from mine. Mary Matalin and James Carville manage it...don't they?
But I will be so glad when this election is over. Will you?
Doesn't it usually descend into what Jan Struther's Mrs. Minerva called "tedious and unprofitable discussion. Tedious because neither side possesses any currency but cliches, and unprofitable because it was clear from the outset that neither side was going to budge an inch."
Mrs. Minerva would not be drawn in. Civilized conversation about a wide variety of subjects she would have enjoyed, even political ones, but how do you keep it civilized with respect on each side? You tell me and we'll both know.
He discovered--or confirmed--that she had humor and originality;
she saw reason in views which she did not share--a rare virtue this!
D.E. Stevenson's 1938 Smouldering Fire
Robert Louis Stevenson's cousin, D.E. Stevenson's books have long been my comfort books when worries crowd into my mind when I put my head on the pillow at night. I have about 28 of them, mostly in paperback. The title of the above book, Smouldering Fire, sounds as if it would be a "romance" book but it isn't, except in a very gentle fashion. Note the "u" in humour and smouldering that the Brits use but we Americans do not. I wonder why? I like that extra "u" and I like to sit down and have a reasonable discussion with people who have different views from mine. Mary Matalin and James Carville manage it...don't they?
But I will be so glad when this election is over. Will you?
Go Vote on Tuesday!
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